Morning Prayer for a Couple in Trouble

A couple can go through a relationship’s ups and downs, and it’s normal to have disagreements or even arguments. But sometimes, when a fight becomes more frequent and intense, it can signal that the relationship is in trouble.

You might be someone who is burdened by seeing a couple that is close to your heart and struggling presently in their relationship. You want to help, but you don’t know how. The good news is that including this couple’s problem in your morning prayer is the best way to start helping them.

When you pray for a couple in trouble, ask God to guide them in their relationship, help them see what is causing the conflict, and ask Him to provide them with the strength to work through it. Pray that they may choose love over hatred and bitterness and learn how to forgive each other. 

Your prayer, even done in silence, can help this couple overcome what they are going through. We cannot underestimate the power of prayer and the effect it can have on the lives of others. Keep reading as we talk about what and how you can effectively pray for anyone facing a struggling relationship.

How Do You Pray for a Struggling Relationship?

In a relationship, a smooth-sailing couple can easily pray for God to intervene in their lives and ask for blessings and guidance to bring glory and honor to His name. However, when their relationship faces troubles and starts to struggle, it can be tempting for them to stop praying because of bitterness, sadness, confusion, and feelings of betrayal. 

For this reason, a friend’s couple or someone who cares about them should stand in the gap and intercede for them in prayer. The Bible tells us that we are to pray for one another so that we can be healed (physically or emotionally) [James 5:16 (NIV)]. 

When this couple is clouded by thoughts and neglects to pray, we can be there to help them see more clearly by praying for them. This way, God can powerfully do something in their lives and remind them that, in His presence, there is peace. By drawing closer to Him, they can change their hearts and recognize their own imperfections. 

Supposing you have already prayed for yourself and are now ready to pray for someone else. The prayer items below, with sample prayers, can help you pray effectively for a struggling couple. 

Pray for Humility

Pride is often the culprit when a particular problem in a relationship cannot be resolved immediately. The prideful person tends to blame their spouse for the problem, making it difficult for them to acknowledge their part in it. The Bible says that pride causes disgrace, but humbleness brings wisdom [Proverbs 11:2 (NIV)].

Pray that God will give these people humility so they can be open to His word and direction in their lives. Also, pray that they’re willing to look at themselves honestly and admit their mistakes; also, that they’re ready to ask for help when needed rather than feeling like they have everything under control. And finally, pray that they can accept help when offered, even if it comes from someone they are uncomfortable with.

“Dear God, please help this couple to humble themselves to You. Please enable them to resist the temptation of pride and arrogance. Please help them follow Your will in all things and submit their lives to You in obedience. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

Pray for a Changed Heart

In relationships where one person has been hurt by the other, they are most likely afraid of getting hurt again. They may have developed an attitude of distrust toward each other, which can be difficult to overcome. But God can change hearts and heal the pain caused by brokenness. He desires to do so and will honor prayers that seek Him to mend a wounded heart [Psalm 147:3 (NIV)]. 

In your prayer, you may include that this couple would be willing to open their hearts to God’s healing love. Pray that they will ask God to change their hearts and forgive the one who hurt them. Also, pray that they’ll be willing to let go of the anger, bitterness, and resentment they’re holding onto. Since God is the only one who can change hearts and minds, you can also pray that God will help them realize their need for Him, which enables them to accept love and forgiveness. 

“Dear God, I pray for this couple to surrender their hearts to You and allow You to heal them from pain and brokenness. Cleanse their hearts from anger, bitterness, and resentment. Please help them realize that, through You, there is freedom from any hurts and disappointments. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

Pray for the Restoration of Love

Love is the main reason why two people decide to get married in the first place. And while it’s true that love can endure and thrive even through difficult times, it also requires a commitment to nurture and maintain it. However, the Bible clearly describes God’s definition of love [1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (NIV)]. Couples should remember that when their love begins to drift apart, it is time to take a closer look at their marriage and remind themselves of what God expects. If love is lost, the couple must first restore their relationship with God before trying to fix their marriage.

So, in your prayer, you must pray for them first as individuals. Ask God to help them resolve their personal issues. If one is struggling with sin, you can intercede for them to come to repentance. As a couple, pray that God will restore their relationship and help them learn to love each other again. As you pray for restoration of love, ask God to give them the strength and courage to work through their problems together as husband and wife. Also, pray for them to have a renewed sense of commitment to each other and to God.  

“Dear God, please remind this couple of their role as husband and wife. Help the husband remember that he is responsible for the well-being of his wife. Also, help the wife to remember to submit to her husband, honoring and respecting his leadership. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

Pray for Wisdom

Wisdom is one of the gifts of the Holy Spirit [1 Corinthians 12:8 (NIV)] that helps us to understand and value our faith. It also magnifies the importance of our relationship with God by revealing His heart for us. And God’s heart for us is to live according to His will. It is His will to have a husband and wife devoted to each other, just as Christ is committed to the church [Ephesians 5:25 (NIV)]. A way to show a commitment to Christ is by respecting and treating marriage as sacred in God’s eyes.

Therefore, in your prayer for a couple facing challenges in their relationship, pray that they’d be guided by wisdom in every decision they make. Also, ask God to reveal the areas of their lives that need to be changed and healed. Pray that the couple would have a love so deep that it could never be separated by anything, just like the love God has for us through Jesus Christ [Romans 8:35-39 (NIV)]. And pray that they would see each other with God’s eyes and treat each other with respect and honor.

“Dear God, I pray for this couple to receive wisdom as they face conflicts and troubles. Please help them make decisions in their relationship in an attempt to resolve their problem. Help them re-ignite their love for each other by revealing Your love for them. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

Pray for Spiritual Growth

When a couple overcomes their struggles, they learn from them and grow stronger. They also have a better understanding of each other, which makes their relationship more fulfilling and meaningful. Conflict and troubles can bring a couple closer together, and it is vital for them to realize this. The more they work through their problems, the stronger their relationship will be.

So, in your prayer ask God to help the couple grow through their struggles and become more like Christ. Pray that they would learn from their mistakes and become better people who can serve as a good testimony to others who want to seek a godly relationship. Though they are two persons with imperfections, they can inspire people that the grace of the Lord is abounding, and He is why they have to find breakthroughs. Also, pray that they would have a deeper understanding of each other, leading to better communication that will help fulfill their God-given purpose and glorify God by serving together. 

“Dear God, I praise You because I know You are faithful and abounding in grace and mercy. I am confident that You will help this couple find a breakthrough in their struggle. And when this happens, I pray they may grow spiritually and learn from their mistakes. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

Pray for Divine Protection

Divine protection is one of the most important things a couple needs in marriage. This protection comes from God; without it, they will be vulnerable to attack from the enemy that wants to destroy their godly relationship. When a couple is struggling, they may be under attack spiritually, and there is no other way to fight for it effectively but through prayer. 

As the intercessor and the one who is aware of the situation, you should pray for this couple. In your prayer, include that God will protect this couple from further damage caused by conflict and all the schemes of the enemy. And may their spiritual eyes be opened so they can repent from their sin and draw closer to God again. 

“Dear God, I come to You as an intercessor for this couple, which is spiritually attacked by the enemy and prevented from living a life of purpose that will glorify Your name. In the name of Jesus, I rebuked the enemy’s works and the deception planted in this couple’s minds. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

Conclusion: 

To pray for someone is a privilege, yet it’s also a responsibility. It’s a privilege because praying for someone is an act of love, and God loves it when we show Him that we love others by praying for them. Remember that we are called to pray for each other, especially those closest to us. And in every prayer, we should ask God to help us be sensitive to the needs of others by giving us wisdom from the Holy Spirit. The prayers written in this article are just guides to help you make your own prayer for a couple struggling in their relationship.